Early
ejaculation turns her irritated!!
Guys, are you one of those who try to avoid sexual
intimacy because of early to very early ejaculation. Every woman
naturally desires her man to carry on more and more during sexual play on bed.
In few cases it just not happens, man reach climax sooner than her. It has been
observed that the normal average time until ejaculation is five minutes. But
few always ejaculate within one minutes of penetration
of penis into vagina
or are always never able to delay ejaculation.
Naturally sexual desire in man is higher as compared to
women. And women may have tendency for demanding lengthy sexual plays.
It is obvious, reaching orgasm too early, gets her irritated,
annoyed, and frustrated. If she can’t orgasm often becomes uninterested in sex,
because your efforts might not fulfilling for her.
“In
the long run, the woman becomes distressed and frustrated. Much like the man,
she avoids sexual contact for fear of rejection and the resulting trauma for
her own sexuality,” explains sex
researcher Andrea Burri.
Despite what you might think, ejaculating early is not
the end of the world. It fact depending on how react and what you do next, this
can be still an absolutely wonderful, exciting and satisfying experience for
both of you.
Now it might be necessary to learn how exactly to handle
a situation when you shoot too quickly is obviously frustrating and not what
you typically want to happen in bed. But it does happen whether you suffer from
premature ejaculation or whether you can usually last as long as you want. And
when it happens there isn’t much you can do it to stop it. However, what you do
next can make a huge difference and be a deciding factor whether you both walk
away disappointed or deeply satisfied.
Show
positive reaction
The first thing you need to keep in mind is your own
reaction to your early ejaculation. Yes it’s disappointing and not what you
wanted. But acting all frustrated or even ignoring it, is going to make the
situation worse. Why, because your reaction will in many cases tell her what to
think about you, sexual relationship, or even live in relationship with you. It
may be appreciable that you’re taking care of her socially, financially, but
what about her
sexual desire? Have you ever
thought that to fulfil sexual need of her is not less than fulfilling the need
of any other most essential and demanding nature.
Here is what I mean. If you start acting all depressed or
annoyed, you are actually in that moment telling her that what had happened
wrong meaning you shooting your load too quickly, which she doesn’t like, is in
fact a terrible thing. And when she sees
you getting down on yourself. She will
very likely share the sentiment and feel disappointed. However if you make
light of the situation and accept it with a sense of peace and a positive
attitude, she will see that it’s no big deal. It’s always better to talk
humbly, brief her the reason of early
release of white load, it may be due to mental tension, work overload, fatigue
of the day and so on, believe me she will understand you and offer her help to
get rid of the problem.
Focus
on her need & pleasure
Early ejaculation is not something unique, It happens to the most of the couples, and remember it’s not
the end of the world, let’s move on just because your penis
is done for now, doesn’t mean
that there is no other way to satisfy her.
Sex isn’t all about in the intercourse and there are many things to two of you can do together
to have more erotic fun. So focus on her and her pleasure. Ask her what she
would like, what she desires, what would give her the most pleasure in that
moment.
Because while woman do love intercourse. She also really
love other things too, particularly if you involve stimulating her clitoris, So
go down on her or stimulate her with your hands and with plenty of lube. Use
your pointed tongue to tease her clitoris, sometimes circle your finger and
tongue on her anal opening too. Rub your genitals together, touch, kiss, caress
her, give her an erotic massage or fulfil any other wish or desire that she
might has, of course, yes a hard wand is awesome great for thrusting. But
penetrating her with your penis is not what brings most women to orgasm.
Try
again
Sex has no age bar. As age increases, everyone gets more
maturity and experience. It’s not that you could not perform well this time,
you’re failed, No it’s not true, you can do much better sometime later. Depending
on your physical and mental capabilities, stamina, general health, fitness and
a few other factors, you might be able to go again.
This is up to you to decide and if you can ask her to
wait a while, and tell her that I need a little break but how about if I give
you sensual touch or a full body sensational massage, or something more sensual
which ever you like, while we wait? be honest to explain, that any other sexual
activity will surely make me hard too, definitely she is going to like it, and for sure it will enhance erotic feelings
of both of you, will add more sexual satisfaction and provoke to enjoy more
sexually and emotionally satisfaction too.
Talk
to her
Communication is so important when it comes to sex. And
particularly when it comes to sexual performance and any issue. Early ejaculation
can and does happen and ignoring it is the worst thing that you can do. So talk
to her, express how you feel and what you desire to create in your sex life
together.
Tell her about your feelings of frustration, sadness, or
disappointments when you can’t quite perform the way that you would like and
ask her what you can do for her, to make her feel good and taken care of sexually
speaking. Don’t assume that you know what she’s thinking. So many men think
that good sex consist of plenty of fast, intense thrusting. But the truth is
that actual real women want a lot of more than just a penis in her vagina action.
And talking to her will teach you exactly what your woman desires.
Think
ahead
And most important, always be far sighted, Never worry
about coming early ever again. Do you want to feel confident that you can last
as long as you want every single time. Do you want to never have to depend on
medication, or numbing cream? There is lot to do, which is proven and tested.
Just promise yourself to learn how to get harder, last as long as you want
easily and naturally through the proper technique and practice it regularly.
It’s not any impossible task. But easy and enjoyable which will assist you to
feel healthy, enjoy
your sexual life and more over satisfy your beloved one and keep her happy
always.
FAQ—
Do early
ejaculation creates problem for women?
In many cases yes, it creates, especially mental &
sexual problem.
Is
premature ejaculation is curable?
Of course it can be controlled and cured with the help of
balance diet, regular physical & kegel exercise, good sound sleep, and
medical advice if needed.
Any
alternates of early ejaculation?
So many alternate sexual activities can satisfy woman,
like gentle kissing, licking her genitals, bath together, sex toys, erotic body
massage and so on.
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Yes i think you should always consider the womans needs above urs first.....
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