How to give him Blow job



Do you remember when you orally satisfied your man last time? Was it amazing, unique, extra ordinary, mind blowing? And what was his response and reaction?
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Would you like to know more how to give your man a perfect blow job? How to blow his mind and take care of him to the heights of pleasure, he has never experienced before with anybody else?

It fairly often happens that males don’t like getting blow jobs from their partner and that is itself should blow your mind too because men everywhere claims that there is nothing better than a blowjob, or that even average or  bad blowjobs are still a great experience.

However it turns out many men prefer to turn down an offer of oral sex from their partner and let me clear you why because this is something matter of curiosity  that  very high percentage of women give very poor blow job. And it ruins the sexual feelings of men. They normally start to avoid sexual relation with their partner despite they love and care their women.

What might be the reasons? Why men can’t find themselves comfortable with their loved one. Are there any specific techniques or rocket science involved in offering oral sex?

Women want to please their men too, but due to lack of awareness, unwillingness  and not understanding the sexual desire of men properly, sometimes they might feel unable to do it in right way. Here let’s discusses the solution of everyone’s favourite, arousing, pleasurable Fellatio.

Enthusiasm

Performing bow job half heartedly won’t serve any purpose. First you have to focus, are you doing this because your man is asking for? Or you are really eager to please him with your lips, tongue and throat.

Whether you are with your long time partner or on new date, It depends on you, how much enthusiastic you are. If it is so, you don’t need to be technically expert. You just have to simply into it. Your enthusiasm would provoke you to give sensual oral sex to your man and it will the best and different from all his previous partners. For sure, It’s   going to prove that you are the different and amazing sexual lover.

Learn to enjoy

You need to learn blow job art and skill for yourself, just not for him. The inside of your mouth is very sensitive and can enjoy a variety of sensations. So treat his penis as a beautiful gift you get to play with.

Just feel his masculine fragrance, imagine the sloppy movements of your tongue on his soft penis head and on hard wand. Don’t do it just for his pleasure. Learn to love it for yourself, enjoy it and get amazing pleasure from it for yourself as well. A very affectionate, lengthy, passionate oral sex is not less than vaginal or anal sex in any way.  

Build your mind set

Techniques are great, but they really are secondary when it comes to great blowjob. It’s much more than about mind set and your approach to his penis and  your over all attitude about oral sex. So next time you are treating him to some oral sex. It would be sensational to imagine that you are making out with his penis just the way you would approach a very passionate, loving, amazing kiss with your beloved. Your deep kisses, tender touches, licks, and suck his penis and testicles would definitely bring you both really very close.

Deep throating

Ladies, let me ask simple question – do you like your lover’s tongue deep in your beautiful vagina? Does it give you maximum vaginal satisfaction? Certainly the answer would be a big YES. The same happens with men.  A lot of men absolutely love it. So it is skill worth mastering. Some women can actually orgasm from deep throating, so let go of any resistant through about giving a blowjob and give it your all, so that you can enjoy it as well which brings you to deep throating.

Many women can struggle with the gag reflex when taking the penis all the way in. But the more you relax your throat while breathing deeply it would ease and, this will get and the feeling of his penis growing harder and harder in your mouth, while you are taking him in deep is divine. Your little bit of efforts will bring a lot of sexual satisfaction.

Forget the orgasm

This one, might sound strange at first stage but It can’t be stressed enough how important it is. Most men that complain of bad blow job used to describe their experiences that their partners just try to get them off quickly. And that sense of rush and pressure is in most cases very off putting.

Many women resort to blow jobs or hand jobs when they are not in a mood for sex, ignoring that their man are looking for satisfying sex. But stroking your partner for the sake of getting him off your back or getting him off quickly just kills the mood and takes away the joy of this beautiful experience. Sooner or later it might effects good relationship adversely. 

So do it for your pleasure too. Take your time and show your sucking skills, or if you can’t, then don’t do it at all. But in any way never spoil his sexual mood and feelings. Forcing sexual experience won’t serve either of you in the long term.

Think & ask what he likes

All men are different and all penises are different. Don’t assume that your current lover will enjoy everything that your last partner did. Place your question! Say do you like when I do this or that? Do you like when I suck your balls, when I tickle your perineum, when I lick your shaft? What else do you enjoy? How can I make it even more perfect for you? Another little tip is to ask him to show you how he masturbates, so that you can see exactly his favourite approach, speed, time, pressure and pleasure spot.

Look at him  

It’s very general  tendency  among women to keep eyes close while giving blow job. While on the contrary, men are very visual and like to watch the woman in the act of getting him oral sex. Looking back at him while sucking his penis can be extremely hot for both of you and him, maintain eye contact for a few alternate strokes or the entire time, be sure, he will appreciate it and you too can ask him about his feeling without saying any word during oral sex if you look at him passionately.

Cover your teeth

Be careful and make sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Even a moment of pain can ruin his ecstatic blow job experience. But just to tease him show your teeth during giving him oral sex, as you are about to bite his hard penis, it can certainly be super erotic, when your loving partner trusts you. Very slowly and gently glide the surface of your teeth alone his penis, trailing it with your tongue.

Introduce variety

It’s definitely fun to keep your mouth moving up and down. The shaft of his penis but there are so many other things you can do play with variety, keep alternating the speed of your movements, the depth of your oral stimulation.

Don’t forget that he has got very attractive, sexually,  sensitive  testicles, those also looking for your love, and also adore touch either with your mouth or with your hands. You can lick them, suck them, caress them, just make sure to check in with him as well because testicles can be sensitive at times. Be curious, keep experimenting, watch his responses, ask questions, that the best path towards the most masterful blow job of all times, use your hand to support the base of his penis while you are using your mouth, your lips and tongue.

Use your hand

While playing with the head of his penis with your lips, you can also stroke his balls, his perineum and his anus with your fingers and hands, while your mouth is deliciously exploring his penis.

Taste different flavour

Which fruit you like most? Hold on, here I am not talking about to eat your favourite fruit. You must have come across variety of flavoured condoms with different fruits flavour. Those are mainly designed for blow job purpose and then for anal and vaginal sex.

Just to make blow job more erotic and pleasurable and tasty, choose one of your most favourite  fruit taste condom. It’s very easy to use it with your hands on his hard wand.

To make it more sensational put one condom in your mouth, let the opening come out of mouth, put your lips along with condom opening on your man’s hard penis, easily and slowly take it inside covering penis with condom, if, to take his full length in your mouth is difficult, no issue let your hands to cover the rest of length of your man’s penis.

Keep enjoying the taste of different fruits along with the most sensational oral sex. And it will end the debate also, swallow or spit his semen. But still it’s your choice how to manage his thick white ejaculation.

It won’t only give you more pleasure but will protect you from various STI and STD too, But few precautions are also needed, before choosing condoms, It should not be damaged or expired, especially if you are on date with casual partner.

Make blow job more sloppy

Every loving couple like smoothness. The idea to use your spit on his shaft might freaked you, but it will turn his penis more smooth and extra wet. Few might suggest some flavoured lubes, it’s up to you what to use. During oral sex, whenever his penis starts to feel dry and your mouth needs some smooth lubricant, don’t hesitate to use more and more saliva to make oral sex more wetty, charming, pleasurable and comfortable.  

Stimulate your vagina

While engaging yourself in oral sex, don’t forget your beautiful vagina  that also need erotic stimulation.  Whether you are in sitting position or lying on bed, keep running or rubbing your fingers on your vaginal area slowly and gently, it will provide you maximum sensation and provoke to do oral sex more passionately.

You can use sex toys either. According  to the National Cancer Institute. “ Sex toys up the sense of eroticism during oral sex; it can be extremely intense – in a good way”

Well, keep in mind you need not to rush, take your time go slow, especially at the start, take his penis into your mouth gradually, you are choosing to satisfy your partner orally, you are not performing any preassigned job. Don’t compare yourself with any adult movie actress, stay calm, slow going, do as you prefer to make him squirm more, and get maximum sexual satisfaction by using just your fingers, tongue, and moth during lovely Fellatio.

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  1. A very good Topic... But i also think that both partners must enjoy it... And should always be the womans choice if she wants to do it or not....

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