How
to give him Blow job
Would you like to know more how to give your man a
perfect blow job? How to blow his mind and take care of him to the heights of
pleasure, he has never experienced before with anybody else?
It fairly often happens that males don’t like getting
blow jobs from their partner and that is itself should blow your mind too
because men everywhere claims that there is nothing better than a blowjob, or
that even average or bad blowjobs are
still a great experience.
What might be the reasons? Why men can’t find themselves
comfortable with their loved one. Are there any specific techniques or rocket
science involved in offering oral sex?
Women want to please their men too, but due to lack of
awareness, unwillingness and not understanding the sexual desire of men
properly, sometimes they might feel unable to do it in right way. Here let’s
discusses the solution of everyone’s favourite, arousing, pleasurable Fellatio.
Enthusiasm
Performing bow job half heartedly won’t serve any purpose. First you have to focus, are
you doing this because your man is asking for? Or you are really eager to
please him with your lips, tongue and throat.
Whether you are with your long time partner or on new
date, It depends on you, how much enthusiastic you are. If it is so, you don’t
need to be technically expert. You just have to simply into it. Your enthusiasm would provoke you to give
sensual oral sex to your man and it will the best and different from all his
previous partners. For sure, It’s going
to prove that you are the different and amazing sexual lover.
Learn
to enjoy
You need to learn blow job art and skill for yourself, just
not for him. The inside of your mouth is very sensitive and can enjoy a variety
of sensations. So treat his penis as a beautiful gift you get to play with.
Just feel his masculine fragrance, imagine the sloppy
movements of your tongue on his soft penis head and on hard wand. Don’t do it
just for his pleasure. Learn to love it for yourself, enjoy it and get amazing
pleasure from it for yourself as well. A very affectionate, lengthy, passionate
oral sex is not less than vaginal or anal sex in any way.
Build
your mind set
Techniques are great, but they really are secondary when
it comes to great blowjob. It’s much more than about mind set and your approach
to his penis and your over all attitude
about oral sex. So next time you are treating him to some oral sex. It would be
sensational to imagine that you are making out with his penis just the way you
would approach a very passionate, loving, amazing kiss with your beloved. Your
deep kisses, tender touches, licks, and suck his penis and testicles would
definitely bring you both really very close.
Deep
throating
Ladies, let me ask simple question – do you like your lover’s
tongue deep in your beautiful vagina?
Does it give you maximum vaginal satisfaction? Certainly the answer would be a
big YES. The same happens with men. A lot of men absolutely love it. So it is
skill worth mastering. Some women can actually orgasm from deep throating, so
let go of any resistant through about giving a blowjob and give it your all, so
that you can enjoy it as well which brings you to deep throating.
Many women can struggle with the gag reflex when taking the penis all the way in. But the more you
relax your throat while breathing deeply it would ease and, this will get and
the feeling of his penis growing harder and harder in your mouth, while you are
taking him in deep is divine. Your little bit of efforts will bring a lot of
sexual satisfaction.
Forget
the orgasm
This one, might sound strange at first stage but It can’t
be stressed enough how important it is. Most men that complain of bad blow job
used to describe their experiences that their partners just try to get them off quickly. And that sense of
rush and pressure is in most cases very off putting.
Many women resort to blow jobs or hand jobs when they are
not in a mood for sex, ignoring that their man are looking for satisfying sex.
But stroking your partner for the sake of getting him off your back or getting
him off quickly just kills the mood and takes away the joy of this beautiful
experience. Sooner or later it might effects good relationship adversely.
So do it for your pleasure too. Take your time and show
your sucking skills, or if you can’t, then don’t do it at all. But in any way
never spoil his sexual mood and feelings. Forcing sexual experience won’t serve
either of you in the long term.
Think
& ask what he likes
All men are different and all penises are different.
Don’t assume that your current lover
will enjoy everything that your last
partner did. Place your question! Say do you like when I do this or that?
Do you like when I suck your balls, when I tickle your perineum, when I lick
your shaft? What else do you enjoy? How can I make it even more perfect for
you? Another little tip is to ask him to show you how he masturbates, so that
you can see exactly his favourite
approach, speed, time, pressure and pleasure spot.
Look
at him
It’s very general
tendency among women to keep eyes
close while giving blow job. While on the contrary, men are very visual and
like to watch the woman in the act of getting him oral sex. Looking back at him
while sucking his penis can be extremely hot for both of you and him, maintain eye contact for a few
alternate strokes or the entire time, be sure, he will appreciate it and you
too can ask him about his feeling without saying any word during oral sex if
you look at him passionately.
Cover
your teeth
Be careful and make sure to cover your teeth with your
lips. Even a moment of pain can ruin his ecstatic blow job experience. But just
to tease him show your teeth during
giving him oral sex, as you are about to bite his hard penis, it can certainly
be super erotic, when your loving partner trusts you. Very slowly and gently
glide the surface of your teeth alone his penis, trailing it with your tongue.
Introduce
variety
It’s definitely fun to keep your mouth moving up and down.
The shaft of his penis but there are so many other things you can do play with
variety, keep alternating the speed of your movements, the depth of your oral
stimulation.
Don’t forget that he has got very attractive, sexually, sensitive testicles, those also looking for your love, and
also adore touch either with your mouth or with your hands. You can lick them,
suck them, caress them, just make sure to check in with him as well because
testicles can be sensitive at times. Be curious, keep experimenting, watch his
responses, ask questions, that the best path towards the most masterful blow
job of all times, use your hand to support the base of his penis while you are
using your mouth, your lips and tongue.
Use
your hand
While playing with the head of his penis with your lips, you
can also stroke his balls, his perineum and his anus with your fingers and
hands, while your mouth is deliciously exploring his penis.
Taste
different flavour
Which fruit
you like most? Hold on, here I am not talking about to eat your favourite
fruit. You must have come across variety of flavoured condoms with different
fruits flavour. Those are mainly designed for blow job purpose and then for anal
and vaginal sex.
Just to make blow job more erotic and pleasurable and
tasty, choose one of your most favourite fruit taste
condom. It’s very easy to use it with your hands on his hard wand.
To make it more sensational put one condom in your mouth,
let the opening come out of mouth, put your lips along with condom opening on
your man’s hard penis, easily and slowly take it inside covering penis with
condom, if, to take his full length in your mouth is difficult, no issue let
your hands to cover the rest of length of your man’s penis.
Keep enjoying the taste of different fruits along with
the most sensational oral sex. And
it will end the debate also, swallow or spit his semen. But still it’s your
choice how to manage his thick white ejaculation.
It won’t only give you more pleasure but will protect you
from various STI and STD too, But few precautions are also needed, before
choosing condoms, It should not be damaged or expired, especially if you are on
date with casual partner.
Make
blow job more sloppy
Every loving couple like smoothness. The idea to use your spit on his shaft might freaked
you, but it will turn his penis more smooth and extra wet. Few might suggest
some flavoured lubes, it’s up to you what
to use. During oral sex, whenever his penis starts to feel dry and your mouth
needs some smooth lubricant, don’t hesitate to use more and more saliva to make
oral sex more wetty, charming, pleasurable and comfortable.
Stimulate
your vagina
While engaging yourself in oral sex, don’t forget your beautiful
vagina that also need erotic
stimulation. Whether you are in sitting
position or lying on bed, keep running or rubbing your fingers on your vaginal area
slowly and gently, it will provide you maximum sensation and provoke to do oral
sex more passionately.
You can use sex toys either. According to the National Cancer Institute. “ Sex toys up the sense of eroticism during oral sex;
it can be extremely intense – in a good way”
Well, keep in mind you need not to
rush, take your time go slow, especially at the start, take his penis into your
mouth gradually, you are choosing to satisfy your partner orally, you are not
performing any preassigned job. Don’t compare yourself with any adult movie actress,
stay calm, slow going, do as you prefer to make him squirm more, and get
maximum sexual satisfaction by using just your fingers, tongue, and moth during
lovely Fellatio.
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A very good Topic... But i also think that both partners must enjoy it... And should always be the womans choice if she wants to do it or not....
ReplyDeleteWell written...
ReplyDeleteyou are very beautiful
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot...
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