How to Masturbate your man
I do believe that all of you
know very well how to satisfy your man. By using different kind of sexual acts
such as oral sex, vaginal
sex, anal sex, of course with mutual consent.
If due to some circumstances
e.g. privacy issues, scarcity of safe place, or he is not in mood for any of
those normal sexual activities. How many times you thought to satisfy him with
your fingers?
Pleasuring your man’s penis with your fingers or hand job is really a very
underused sexual technique, but your hands and fingers have a lot more
flexibility and can be used in much more creative way than your mouth or even your vagina.
Let’s discuss about much
more than simply moving your hand up and down on his shaft. So if you are ready
to learn more how to give him an exquisite manual pleasuring session. We are
looking deeper into, it seems that many women don’t quite understand the penis
and because of that, they are embarrassed to ask how to touch it or what to do
with it. They presume that all sexual activities have to initiated and perform
by men only. They sort of grab it and hope for the best. But that’s not
necessarily the best way to play with his wand. So here are few from the best
sex tips for an amazing hand job experience.
How he masturbate!!
First of all it’s good to ask him about his magical rod. What he likes, what doesn’t he like, how to best touch him and anything else that you should know. And this is because all men and all penises are different. So if you simply keep doing what worked for your previous partner, it might not necessarily work for your current one.
The next, watch him
masturbate, or you can simply ask him to masturbate before you, it wonderful
thing for learning about his particular preference is to watch him masturbate.
If he is willing to show you. This will
be a great source of information and insights about the kind of touch, speed,
pressure etc, that he enjoys most.
It is strongly recommended
for you to examine his penis with his consent. Sit down with him when he’s relaxing,
take his wand into your hands and explore it as if you have never held one in
your hands before.
Be curious and ask
questions, explore and admire the colour, textures, length and thickness and
the other sensitive spot. This will help you to create this sort of pleasure
map that will guide you whenever you want to touch and stimulate him. You can repeat
this exercise again while he is hard.
Generally, not at all, men
use lubes when they stroke themselves, you can suggest him to let you use. And
convince him that it can really add to his sensations, some men enjoy simply
oil based lubricants. Others like to play with different ones. So ask your man
what he likes most or experiment with different lubes of various fragrances and
colour of his choice to find out what works best.
Everyone probably aware that
the shaft of the penis enjoys touch and friction, but do you know that the most
sensitive part of the entire penis is the head, where number of nerves come to end
and the frenulum. You will find the
frenulum on the underside of the penis, right where the shaft meets the head.
In fact most men stroke only
the head when they want to take themselves to the climax. So make sure to give
this area some special kind of love. More pressure might be needed, that’s why,
many men complain that their female partner, don’t apply enough pressure when
they stroke them.
And yes many ladies don’t
realise just how much pressure a penis can take. Women typically compare it to
their own vagina and clitoris which are more soft, sensitive and require much more
gentle touch.
So ladies, do take note –
there is biological difference between your vagina and his penis, so he might
expect more pressure than you think.
Adding variety to your hand
job toolkit will surely make him melt in your hands and you don’t necessarily
need to know different ways to stroke him. But a few solid exciting ways to
move and twist your hands along his shaft will surely send him to some blissful
places and while touching him in the most masterful ways.
Keep your eyes on his body
language while your fingers are moving on his penis, Is he relaxed, breathing
deeply, bringing his pelvic towards you, closing his eyes, or moaning? Is his
body language open and receptive? If it is, you are going great and if not, do
check in with him to see what he needs more from you.
A very important part of any
well executed sexual technique is to remain connected with your partner. So
don’t let loose yourself in the technique, don’t forget that there is actually
a man and you are attached to his penis. Make sure to look him in his eyes
lovingly or passionately here and there throughout this experience. It will
make much hotter for him.
While you are giving some amazing touch to his penis, Please don’t forget his beautiful testicles where your favourite white, thick cum is stored. They will really love your gentle, sensational manual loving. So use one hand on his penis while with other gently keep touching and continue giving massage to his testicles.Most women realise that the best orgasm come when they take the time with their arousal. Because while a quick friction focused stimulation can bring him to a brief, sharp release, a longer experience full of touching, stroking and teasing will take him to a much deeper, more powerful climax.
So take your time and don’t
rush him, make sure to also allow your hands to leave his mighty wand and to
also explore area of his body. A good hand job doesn’t need to include keeping
your hands on his penis all the time.
It’s okay to tease him a bit
to move your hands around in order to stroke his groin, inner thighs, lower
belly, nipples, neck, face, ears etc. If he likes, you can gently tease the
opening of his anus also. It would be really thrilling.
Some men find a combination
of manual and oral stimulation particularly more pleasurable. So ladies keep
busy your hand on the shaft of his penis, as you use your mouth on the head of
his penis. Keep rotating your tongue all around it. So you can lick or suck the
head of his penis while your hand is working the shaft and testicles, or your
mouth can move up and down on his shaft with your hand etc. Certainly it is
going to increase the sensation in his entire body.
Try different sex toys to your hand job!!
Open up a whole new world of
possibilities for you. There are so many different accessories that can be used
in combination with manual strokes. You can easily get sex toys for him also,
if he like to try artificial vagina and surely it has to be a great fun if
those used by you on his penis.
Who says that he is the only
one who gets aroused during a hand job? Stroke him with one hand while you
allow the other one to stroke and caress your own body or place a vibrator or
any other sex toy under your vagina and clitoris, so it can stimulate your vagina
too, or while your hands dance on his penis, you can easily stroke yourself too
against his legs, a pillow or any other accessory of your choice. He will
surely love witnessing your passion and bliss, while he is being pleasured by
your hands.
Place your hips!!
Don’t forget that your man
loves your fleshy buttocks too, your breech of hips turn on his penis hard like
iron rod. Put some lube on his penis as well as in the breech of your hips too,
to avoid any unnecessary rashes. Sit on him in reverse position hold his shaft
from it’s base and gently start moving your hips in up and down position or
from side to side on his penis, as you both like and enjoy. It will certainly
going to increase the passionate sensation, not only to his penis but to your
vagina also. It will not be a wonder that you both enjoy this a lot and reach
on climax together.
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