How to seduce a woman

 

The art of seduction is a very interesting topic and one that not enough men are familiar with. Seducing a woman well is a great skill to have, whether you are single and dating or you want to keep seducing  your  woman. Seduction is all about paying attention to someone’s desires and moving forward accordingly.

Women are different, their liking and disliking are different. There might be different ways to seduce women. Before we get to different practical tools of seduction, let’s cover the basics.

Watch out your appearance

 

You need to take care of your appearance, if you want a woman to notice you. Putting in an effort when it comes to your personal hygiene, grooming and clothing is important. Work on dressing up if you expect to see someone you are attracted to. Just keep in mind. It’s sexy to be yourself. Strive to look your best on your term. You are one of the best !! So don’t copy anyone. When you show up looking good, you are communicating to her that you care and that you have a lot to offer.

Body language

Keep your body language open and confident. Direct and confident body language can signal your interest. Try using cues to show a woman you are attracted to her and interested in physical and sexual too. Don’t cross your arms and keep your torso and face turned in her direction. This will communicate openness and a sense of safety to her. Also keep an eye on her body language, if she equally open? Or is she closing down or turning away from you.

 Be admirable

Ask yourself, do you admire yourself. First try to be likeable, Don’t jump onto getting conclusion but spare some time to be her first sip of tea or coffee and the first and foremost thing to do is to be likeable. Woman first needs to like you to start a friendly conversation. This is the first phase. You have to the person who is liked. Just forget about seducing her if you are not likeable.

Choose a nice place

 

Where you take her on a date together plays a part in seducing. Nothing speaks romance quite like a full moon, a classy restaurant or a lovely spot in nature. It doesn’t have to be very luxurious or expensive but you do need to put some thought into it. Seducing her in a short, crappy, crowded or loud spot or environment, it is just not going to be as effective. So you are looking nice and handsome and your surrounding are lovely and hopefully romantic. That is if you were able to choose, where you are going to spend the time with her. Choose the appropriate place where she can enjoy freely and feel safe, romantic.

Be a gentleman

Next thing to focus on is being  a gentleman towards her but also towards others around you. Be chivatrous, courteous and respectful. Don’t try to push her or convince her to do with you anything before she is ready, that would actually be a big turnoff, and when she enjoys the way that you treat her and she admires the way that you treat others, you are off to a great start. Besides a gentleman and gentlemanly way of conducting yourself is very romantic and attractive to woman, and hence it’s a great tool in your seduction toolkit.

Be a good listener

It has normally been observed that poor listening skills a terribly unattractive quality. When you approach a woman, try to listen to her. Women tend to be attracted to those who seem interested in them. Rather than boasting about your own accomplishment and telling all your achievements and stories, try listening instead.

A man who listens, comes across as deep caring and patient. The quality of your conversation with her will also be much better, since you will learn so much more about her and you will be able to guide the conversation better by asking her to elaborate on particular topics by adding your own insights on topics that are important to her.

Since physical and sexual attraction is tied to personality. Getting to know a person well can actually enhance your sexual feelings for that person. So if you do end up successfully seducing a woman, you might enjoy the sexual encounter more if you know her very well.

Make her laugh

 

No woman would be interested in your daily routine stories, she would expect happiness when she is with you. So a bit of humour in your conversation with her is going to give you extra points in her eyes. If she has fun with you, there is a big chance that she will want to hang out with you more. So make sure to bring along your funny side and while jokes are a wonderful addition to your conversation with her. Make sure to do more than joke. Don’t try to impress her, don’t try to think of the perfect things to do and say. Just focus on fun and building a connection. But be careful your jokes or funny stories have to be sober which make laugh and she enjoys, never use any filthy or disgraceful language.

Open to her

 

Opening up to her about something deep, personal or even vulnerable to you will be really seductive. Women look for a person with whom they can have a profound emotional connection and to this kind of deep shares will show her that she can have love to be with you, also you opening up to her will invite her to do the same. And there is something truly powerful about two people sharing with each other deeply. It’s bonding, intimate and very enjoyable.

Notice similarities

Whenever you realise that there are any similarities between the two of you point it out, bring it to her attention. We naturally feel connected to people that we have things in common with. It creates a sense of trust, closeness and familiarity, So use that to your advantage.

Eye contact

Maintaining a good quality eye contact is always great but particularly so when you are trying to seduce her. Make sure to keep strong and steady eye contact when you’re talking to her. Don’t stare instantly that can be unnerving, and it is also good to break the eye connection from time to time. When you don’t flinch, don’t hesitate and keep strong eye contact while smiling warmly or slyly, it all communicates masculinity. Basically find that sweet spot of looking her in the eye calmly, warmly, encouragingly , but without being too intense. This will communicate to her your confidence, your solid background and it will make her more likely to trust you.

 

Make her feel special

 

We all like to feel special so this one can really earn you extra points in her eyes. So make sure to notice things about her, about things that she is talking about. This will help you pay her a meaningful compliment, a compliment that will show that you have been paying attention. So don’t just say – You are beautiful or anything else generic compliment  her on something that you know she finds valuable or important.

Be a little mysterious

Women like the mysterious men, don’t open your cards in very initial stage. Be gentle and courteous, and the same time, be very bold. While opening up to her is attractive, so keeping a little bit of mystery. You don’t have to answer every single question that she asks, you can tease her a little. You can say oh, wouldn’t you like to know that ? Or I will tell you next week. She will think more about you till the next meeting. It will leave her even more interested in you.

Go slow

Seduction is all about timing. Go slow, take your time in the seduction process. Part of what makes a person want another person is the anticipation. When you meet a person you are interested in, take your time to proceed. Wait little bit to approach her and start off by listening more than you talk. Never reveal your intention right away as this might be off putting. Don’t try to rush her to any particular outcome or action. Building the attraction slowly, patiently will assure that it will last much longer.

Ask her for a favour

We help people that we like, and we like the people who help. It’s human psychologically. So asking her for a little favour might be a good way to deepen the feelings that she already has for you. Generally women prefer to help a person whom they like. It creates closeness also. So don’t hesitate to ask for a favour.

Boyfriend material

Women look for someone quite particular as a partner. So when you show her qualities in yourself that are attractive, she will be more likely to see you a boyfriend material, Don’t necessarily tell her that you are dependable, caring, protective or trustworthy, instead say it to her through your action or tell her of a recent experience where you showed off your amazing qualities.     

Touch her

 

A little bit of gentle non sexual touch might be really good idea. Touch her and stroke her arm or may be even touch her hair if things are going well. Find ways to break the touch barrier flirtatiously and create some sexual tension. Hold her hand to lead. Show her way by placing your hand on the small of her back. Try and slowly get a woman more comfortable with your touch.

But be mindful of her response Verbal or non verbal, If she is not comfortable with you touching her, if she is putting away, that might mean not yet.

Focus on her erogenous zones

 

Erogenous zones are parts of the body that stimulate sexual desire when touched, kissed, licked, or otherwise caressed. Not everyone’s erogenous zones are the same, but certain areas of the body tend to be sensitive for many women. The neck and ears have many nerve ending and are generally not touched during the day. They might respond well of kissing, sucking, and gentle biting. The abdomen, lower back, and inner thighs are also sensitive to the touch. Many women derive sexual pleasure from being touched here.

 

So gentleman Seducing a woman is not any kind of miracle. It’s an art, which you have to learn and practice. The best way to seduce a woman would be like to keep her happy, your full bucket of laughter, naughty stories, crazy games and of course teasing would certainly turn her on.

Remember the big secret is that it’s not how wealthy you’re, how smart you look. Not at all, it’s entirely all about how you can make woman feel when she is around you.

If you have capabilities to make woman feel appreciated, if you can connect with woman on a deeper level, all while teasing, flirting and having fun. Then woman will also love being around you and adore you. And you will be able to have as many great relationships with beautiful woman.

Women love men who are challenging, who stand up for themselves and who above all else are fun to be around with. So focus on all above and seducing a woman won’t be a big task for you, and you would certainly go very far.

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FAQ –

How to seduce a woman at first sight?

Look at the person from top to bottom with a lovely smile. Open your mouth and make O, just to show your appreciation.

Do women like to be touched?

Might  be, if they feel impressed to see you. As a man you should touch her initially and hold back. If she feels good she will let you move further with pleasing smile.

What woman search in man?

Women look for someone quite particular as a partner. she will be more likely to see you a boyfriend material. Before moving further assess yourself.

 

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