How
to help your man to delay ejaculation
Since
ages a lot of men desire to last longer in bed.
Whether they suffer from premature ejaculation or physical weakness? They often
desire to extend their stamina, but stamina doesn’t mean how long male partner
can perform, it also refers how strongly one can perform without getting tired,
without losing the lasting power during love making.
It is normally assumed that long lasting and satisfying
performance is the responsibility of male with whom you are enjoying. All the
sexual activities from initiating to finish have to perform by males only. Females are supposed to be just a passive
sexual partner only. Perhaps it’s not always true and acceptable. When both
the partner are engaged and enjoying the most intimate sexual activities
together, both are supposed to take part actively and try to satisfy each other
willingly.
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So being his love partner you are able to help him to
last longer that is a very valuable skill, surprise your lover by guiding him
through your previous sexual experiences where he managed to last much longer
than he ever has in his life before and this is something that these men have
typically reacted to with a huge surprise or over shock but each time, each one
of these men had a very positive or even enlightening experience in how women
could be helpful in extending their sexual experiences together and this
something that any woman can do, it doesn’t require any special skill or
talent. It just requires a bit solid
knowledge about a man’s body and how his arousal works and how it can be
extended much beyond what men are used to during intercourse.
Sexual
imagination
So it is needed to explore this issue much deeper. Let’s
have a look at how any woman can help her lover last much longer in bed. The
first thing to understand here is what actually leads a man to get erection and
ejaculation. It is his excitement as simple as that, this excitement is built
by sexual stimulation his lover’s naked
body, her touch, her erotic sexual images in his mind, but most of them
effect the stimulation of his genital, if his penis is being stimulated in a
way that builds his arousal very fast, he will cum early, so be careful and
take your time, help him to imagine more and more in the way he likes. You must
have seen various ancient erotic paintings and statues, sculptures in books
& magazines, or in caves where those are scripted and embossed, try to feel
them inside yourself, depict & imitate those pose and scenes. Always try to
divert his attention from one erotic thought to another, never let him focus on to finish or cum.
Slow
him down
Remember that in normal condition heart rate, pulse, and
blood pressure, increases little bit during love making and his mind pace his
arousal to help him to last longer, try to slow down the entire experiences. It
is not appropriate to presume that just because he is inside of you, doesn’t
mean that he needs to keep pumping continuously like a sexual robot or automatic
sex toy until he is done. Keep changing
the sexual activities, positions. Always go slow, just because you are stimulating
him orally or manually it don’t mean that you need to go hard and fast until he
explodes, it’s okay to slow down and cooperate with him to take breaks. If you
ignore his pace and let him continue his body may becomes over excited, he will
cum very early and for the most that means the end of the intercourse and might
be possible that you are not fully satisfied, bear in mind the consequences of premature ejaculation so always slow
him down.
Help
him to relax
Always pay attention to something very specific when you
are in bed with your man and that is muscle tension up all the muscles surrounding his genitals as
they get aroused. This tension is almost involuntary and it accelerates his
ejaculation. So paying attention and helping him relax his pelvic muscles is
going to help him last longer. This can look like placing your hands on his
back and gently massaging that area or rocking it from side to side. You can
also encourage him with your voice saying relax, go slow or soften your pelvic
area. While he is in relaxing mood you can engage in solo sex, sit in front of
him, feel and touch your private parts, your breasts, belly and caress your
hips and legs in erotic style, it will definitely increase his erotism without
ejaculating early.
Monitor
his breath
Another thing to pay attention to his breath is it fast and shallow or slow and deep? Because again this is something that will influence his ejaculation, fast and shallow breaths will promote a faster climax which you won't prefer, while deep, relaxed breathing will keep him going longer. So help him by noticing his breaths and by guiding him to slower deeper sort of breaths, it not about cum only but about calming down the body with a relaxed breath to encourage him last longer.
Show
him feel your erotic touch
Finally one more thing that is a powerful tool of
expanding his lasting power is your erotic
touch. Many women make the mistake of touching him mainly on or around his
penis, and while that will feel very pleasurable and exciting for him. It will
also localise his sexual energy in one area and you don’t want that. In order
to help him last longer his energy need to flow more and expand in his body and
that kind of experiences require a full body touch.
So instead of venturing mainly to his neither regions
allow your hands to wander all over.
Touch his belly, arms, neck, face, ear lobes, his legs, his strong buttocks,
genital, testicles, even his feet. Stroke, massage and caress him all over during
the experience and particularly as he gets more aroused. This will really help
to guide his excitement all over his system instead of keeping it locked in his
genitals only.
You would never like to be as the other women who often
get frustrated from premature ejaculation of their husband or bed partner. It
is also true that man can’t last many hours on bed. There should be optimum and
reasonable time period of intercourse including foreplay to satisfy both the
partner, and the time duration is not supposed to be the entirely
responsibility of male partner only. You
should also contribute equally, just to use your sexual experiences, beauty
and fashion, erotism, way of presentation, sensual style and different sexual
positions.
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